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The Impact of Penis Size on Men’s Self-Esteem

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Every man is proud of his manhood as he should be but making it dependent on physical attributes more than inner growth can have terrible outcomes for your mental health. According to psychological studies, a man’s self-worth and self-confidence are correlated with the size of his penis. When a girl says it’s big, it makes a guy feel instantly better and gives him a boost. Let’s find out why having a large penis makes you feel like a “Real Man“!

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Penis Size and Self-Esteem 

The identity and self-worth of men are closely linked to sex. Even successful men have a feeling of inferiority if they don’t feel optimum in bed. This is because men care & worry a lot about how they come across sexually to their partners, which makes them extremely anxious. Over time this anxiety leads men to lose all confidence in themselves and causes sexual health issues. 

Did you know? According to a recent survey,30% of men are unhappy with their size. Men were questioned about their concerns linked to their penis, including their fears of being laughed at, being rejected due to size, and being exposed in front of women or other men. Some men even fear that people will be able to determine how big their penis is just by looking at them in their pants.

Desirability for a Long & Thick

There was a statistically significant link between the self-reported penis length of sexually experienced men and their Marlowe-Crowne social desirability scores.

A 2019 study found that many men overestimate the size of their penis when self-reporting, especially if they have experienced sexual activity with another person.

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Actual Average Penis Size

A 2019 research article notes that most males believe the average length for an erect penis is around 6 inches when in fact, the average is much smaller. 

While sizes vary widely, the average length is probably 5.1 and 5.5 inches and most likely toward the smaller end of this scale. 

Impact on Mental and Physical Health

A small penis undermines sexual confidence. Men with small penises feel shy to be naked in front of others. Fear and nervousness cause sexual health problems due to performance anxiety like ED and premature ejaculation.

Even if they are actually normal-sized, men who believe they are smaller than average tend to be less confident and less happy. They are more likely to use online dating services, be self-conscious about showing their penis and struggle with their body image. Additionally, due to anxiousness, they may even have worse health and are more inclined to get surgery for penis enlargement. The opposite is also accurate. Men with larger-than-average dick sizes are typically more self-assured and happy. 

Small Penis Syndrome

Men are often troubled by concerns that their penis is not large enough to satisfy their partner or themselves. He is ashamed to have others view his penis, especially in its flaccid state. Such concerns might not be true but he is conditioned to think so due to consumption of porn, social anxiety or other clinical problems, such as erectile dysfunction. When such concerns become excessive, it is called small penis syndrome. It is excessive contemplation accompanied by repetitive checking practices, body dysmorphic conditions etc that affect men’s health.

Men with average size penises are less confident than those with genuine micropenises! For various reasons, they fear that they are below average even when they are perfectly fine. Those who know they are small seem to deal with it: it’s the fear of being small that causes problems!

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The problem with the ego is it can often ‘disguise’ itself as self-esteem and it is important to become aware of this issue when it arises. 

  • Mental and Physical Health: A small penis undermines sexual confidence. Even if they are actually normal-sized, men who believe they are smaller than average tend to be less confident/happier. Men with larger-than-average penis sizes are typically more self-assured and happy.
  • Penis Size and Self-Esteem: A staggering 30% of men are unhappy with their size. Some men even fear that people will be able to determine how big their penis is just by looking at them. Yikes!
  • Small penis syndrome: It is an obsessive concern with compulsive checking rituals, body dysmorphic disorder, or as part of psychosis.

Learning to Accept

  • Be Kind to Yourself

It’s about accepting who you are. Treat yourself how you would have treated your son or your best friend. Your partner chose you for a reason; your efforts & will to grow is all that matters.

  • Don’t Get Influenced

You will never be good enough for the world. It will show you Johnny Sins, Baahubali & the Rock at the same time, but it is your choice to get influenced or not! Take back your power.

  • Focus on the positives

It is time to get over looks and focus on function & health. Napolean was short, Jeff Bezos is bald but that didn’t stop them from taking over the world. The size of your penis may or may not be small, but it’s time to focus on things you can control like your sperm count and virility. This you can do through our amazing product range that will ensure you get maximum sexual health without any side-effects.


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